why? why? why?

huhu...
life is hard...
but it is harder because he lost....
he is surely to be blame by everyone.
we could not be so mean, so cruel, so insensitive towards him...
he must be very sad right now.
but who will console him if we never stop blaming him for the loss he caused?
how could we simply point our finger to someone that has given their best?
what would we do if we are in his shoes?
what we would feel?
being very judgemental does not change anything.
things has happened...
let it be that way... all we can do is to accept it the way it is....
pray that things will be better...
remember that if the god does not grant what we wish for, things we expect would not be achieved to...
god gracious, give me the strength to face all this....